Your 20s compose undoubtedly the most pivotal time
in your life. While there are plenty of temptations and
distractions, the decisions you make here are truly
what dictate your future, as the weak fail and only
the strong survive.
Do you have what it takes to become a monumental
success? Or will you live out a life of mediocrity? The
choice is up to you. While many think they have all
the answers and the keys to success, we have seen
those people make the same pitfalls too many times
before.
This is the time for you to hustle, scrap and fight for
the life that you want for yourself. You manifest your
own destiny during these crucial years.
Every move you make is a test. Don’t f*ck it up.
These are the 20 Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make InYour 20s.
20. Working for money, not for building your dreams
Never do anything just because it’s convenient for
you. Look to challenge yourself and build your own
dream instead of building someone else’s. Even if it
doesn’t exactly make sense now, create something
with great value so you can cash out big.
Always look to the future and never for immediate
compensation. What are you going to do with those
weekly wages anyways? Stop being so entitled and
pretending like you deserve cash, prizes and
vacations just yet. You will soon realize once you’ve
made it that making money doesn’t make you happy.
It’s the journey.
19. Thinking that this is the right time to fall in love
While all of your friends might be doing it, don’t fall
into the trap of a relationship. Sure it seems like the
right thing to do, but your 20s are entirely too crucial for your personal growth for you to be focusing on fulfilling the wishes of another individual.
Not only does it make you complacent with where
you are in life, but it makes you boring. When your
business is at stake and your future is resting on
your shoulders, the last thing you need is to be
bogged down by an insecure lover rushing you home.
Get out there, meet new people, test the limits and
have fun. It will take you to the places you’ve only
dreamed of going.
18. Trying to act like the man rather than learning
how to become one Instead of going overboard on the Gucci monogram and bottles in the club, as if you just signed to Rocnation, spend that time focusing on your career.
Every second counts and if more time is spent
pretending to be the person you want to be instead
of becoming that man, then you’ll sink in quick sand without even knowing it.
A real man is willing to make sacrifices. If you aren’t
down to put in the work, then please don’t act like
you are. You can enjoy the success when you actually attain it.
17. Making friends instead of earning trust
The in-crowd may be tempting, but you’ll probably
fall victim to surrounding yourself with social
climbers. We know you feel entitled to celebrate, but please relax. It’s never attractive when you act as though this is the last time you’ll ever see this in life. Make connections with people based on trial and error, not presuppositions and drunk ranting about what they can do for your business.
If you ever want people to take you seriously, then
you have to take them seriously. Just because you
think you trust someone doesn’t always mean you
can. Heed any red flags in the past before jumping
into any kind of venture with them.
16. Not caring because you only live once — that’s for fools.
We all are guilty of irrational decision-making in our
20s. Fast people and fast times with money in your
pocket always lead to over-extending yourself.
A life of partying, heavy drugs and pretty much
having that YOLO(You Only Live Once) attitude will leave you flat on your Bottom.
Get focused and lock into what you’re supposed
to be doing. If you don’t know what that is, then you
better figure it out ASAP (As Soon As Possible)
15. Making all your wants, needs
Expensive women and cheap thrills coupled with the
expensive sneakers should not be on the list of your
needs. Setting the foundation for your business and
team is far more important than updating your
wardrobe and chasing sex.
Distinguish between what you want and what you
actually need. Make sure your priorities are in tact or you will lose your track.
14. Forgetting that family comes first
Those who supported you before anything deserve to
be taken care of when you reach your success. If you aren’t doing this for the ones you love, then you’re not doing it right. Family comes first, no matter what happens. If you work for whom you love instead of just yourself, you will get far.
13. Blaming anyone else but yourself for anything inl ife.
Hold yourself accountable for everything. At the end
of the day, all you have in the world is yourself — so
go hard. Don’t look to anyone for answers and
instead of making problems, create solutions.
Whether it was that job you wanted, the funding you needed or the love you think you can’t live without, there is no one that can be held accountable in this universe except for you.
12. Getting comfortable like you actually deserve
down time Unless you’re chilling with Victoria’s Secret models in
Monaco this weekend, you shouldn’t even be
thinking about taking a break anytime soon. You
need a vacation?
What have you accomplished? Mark Cuban spent
seven years building out his first business before he
even took a break. Don’t get lazy now.
11. Sticking with jobs that didn’t teach you anything.
A bad job is like an unhealthy relationship. Truthfully,
the only reason you’re there is because it is the
safest and easiest thing you know.
Any job or relationship that allows for you to get
comfortable should be avoided at all costs. The last
scenario you could ever want is becoming like the
rest of those miserable 40-somethings faced with
weekends of minivans and soccer practice.
10. Following the crowd instead of forging against it
You can be aware of the trends, but never follow
them. If all your time is spent trying to adjust to your surroundings, you’ll get lost in the crowd all the more easily.
Success and greatness are constructed by
trendsetters themselves, not those who latched on to what’s currently trending.
We hope that you don’t have any aspirations to look like your favorite rapper.
Temptation to be influenced by those who you aspire to be like is easy, but no one finds his or her calling while following in the footsteps of another.
9. Failing to energize those around you
Although you may sometimes think there is a lack of talent in your networks — this is never the case. It is your sole responsibility to inspire, encourage and drive those around you to succeed.
Failing to do so only confirms that you fall victim to
that which you accuse others of. Change and
greatness can be sparked everywhere, but bring it
upon yourself to trigger it.
8. Thinking you need to stop learning and growing
You have more zeros at the end of your bank
statement. Don’t consider this your victory lap,
but rather as a taste of greatness. Do you live to
enjoy the moments you dreamed of or a lifetime of
unimaginable success?
The common misconception that once things are in
your favor, you no longer have to put in the 3:00AM
work hours is a dangerous problem. The fewer nights
that you’re willing to put in the work, the fewer
opportunities you will have to celebrate your
achievements in the future.
7. Thinking that anyone will ever pay you back
Your 20s will be accompanied with a slew of poor
investments by both you and those around you.
Whether rich or poor, there will always be someone in your circle that will need a helping hand. If you ever think you’re going to see that money again, you’re sorely mistaken.
If there were a plan of action and re-investment, then the truth is that you will not see #1 back. Times are tough, especially in your 20s and finding a route back to financial freedom is often seen only when winning the lotto or signing your first deal with Ca$h Money Records.
Of course miracles do happen, but the probabilities
that you’ve essentially given the money away are far too high.
6. Investing in relationships with the wrong values
Your love life is an investment — and the smarter the deals you execute, the savvier of an investor you become. Instead of navigating through an ambiguous investment in which you shower your lover with cash and prizes for existing, make sure he or she will demonstrate positive returns. Your love life should have a solid ROI (Return On Investment)
5. Holding on to friends that waste your time and add
no value to your life
You’ll be sucked down into the abyss right with them
if you don’t cut the fat of the group. Family and
friends could have been great to you as a child, but if they no longer hold the value and inspiration that is needed for you to thrive in life, then cut them loose.
The only individuals you should be surrounding
yourself with are those that challenge your ideas and motivate you to find the next solution to your
problems. No, not the pessimistic assh*les who shoot down your ideas with their negativity, but rather the
ones who genuinely want to see you succeed no
matter what you do in life.
4. Forgetting about the piggy bank and spending
every dollar you have.
The truth is it’s about making more money, not
saving it. But at the same time, if you have no means
for expanding your revenue channels, then you must
be able to save a few dollars here and there. No one
likes to have to walk to work because he blew every naira at night club.
3. Not wrapping it before tapping it If you don’t want to have a child then you better limit your excuses. As vulgar as it may sound, sometimes there are only a few options in life, so you must avoid all potential margins of error.
The road to success is not paved with having
responsibilities of children and your future wife to be.
This is a somewhat lonely journey that you must take by yourself and those you love will be able to
celebrate with you after.
2. Dating unstable people with mummy and daddy
issues
We need to control the invincibility we all feel when it comes to both men and women. Whether she’s a
stripper or he’s a frat bro, we feel the need to be the
knight in shining armor for our lovers.
As chivalrous as this may seem, we hate to break it
to you, but you will never be able to change anyone.
By setting yourself up for a losing battle, you’ve only ensured your misery for the next few months. She’s clingy for a reason, don’t be her Dr. Phil. And if he doesn’t have ambition now, he never will.
1. Forgetting that karma is a huge b*tch
Whether it’s burning bridges with people you loved,
stealing your friend’s girlfriend or plotting against an
ex-partner, we must always remember that karma is
the biggest b*tch we’ve ever met.
There is nothing more true than the fact that
whatever goes around comes around, and you are
not immune to the cosmic forces that be. We’re not
asking you to go on your Mother Teresa pilgrimage,
but don’t be surprised when reality catches back up
with you and brings you to your knees. Be a good
person. You’ll get further in life.
in your life. While there are plenty of temptations and
distractions, the decisions you make here are truly
what dictate your future, as the weak fail and only
the strong survive.
Do you have what it takes to become a monumental
success? Or will you live out a life of mediocrity? The
choice is up to you. While many think they have all
the answers and the keys to success, we have seen
those people make the same pitfalls too many times
before.
This is the time for you to hustle, scrap and fight for
the life that you want for yourself. You manifest your
own destiny during these crucial years.
Every move you make is a test. Don’t f*ck it up.
These are the 20 Mistakes You Don’t Want To Make InYour 20s.
20. Working for money, not for building your dreams
Never do anything just because it’s convenient for
you. Look to challenge yourself and build your own
dream instead of building someone else’s. Even if it
doesn’t exactly make sense now, create something
with great value so you can cash out big.
Always look to the future and never for immediate
compensation. What are you going to do with those
weekly wages anyways? Stop being so entitled and
pretending like you deserve cash, prizes and
vacations just yet. You will soon realize once you’ve
made it that making money doesn’t make you happy.
It’s the journey.
19. Thinking that this is the right time to fall in love
While all of your friends might be doing it, don’t fall
into the trap of a relationship. Sure it seems like the
right thing to do, but your 20s are entirely too crucial for your personal growth for you to be focusing on fulfilling the wishes of another individual.
Not only does it make you complacent with where
you are in life, but it makes you boring. When your
business is at stake and your future is resting on
your shoulders, the last thing you need is to be
bogged down by an insecure lover rushing you home.
Get out there, meet new people, test the limits and
have fun. It will take you to the places you’ve only
dreamed of going.
18. Trying to act like the man rather than learning
how to become one Instead of going overboard on the Gucci monogram and bottles in the club, as if you just signed to Rocnation, spend that time focusing on your career.
Every second counts and if more time is spent
pretending to be the person you want to be instead
of becoming that man, then you’ll sink in quick sand without even knowing it.
A real man is willing to make sacrifices. If you aren’t
down to put in the work, then please don’t act like
you are. You can enjoy the success when you actually attain it.
17. Making friends instead of earning trust
The in-crowd may be tempting, but you’ll probably
fall victim to surrounding yourself with social
climbers. We know you feel entitled to celebrate, but please relax. It’s never attractive when you act as though this is the last time you’ll ever see this in life. Make connections with people based on trial and error, not presuppositions and drunk ranting about what they can do for your business.
If you ever want people to take you seriously, then
you have to take them seriously. Just because you
think you trust someone doesn’t always mean you
can. Heed any red flags in the past before jumping
into any kind of venture with them.
16. Not caring because you only live once — that’s for fools.
We all are guilty of irrational decision-making in our
20s. Fast people and fast times with money in your
pocket always lead to over-extending yourself.
A life of partying, heavy drugs and pretty much
having that YOLO(You Only Live Once) attitude will leave you flat on your Bottom.
Get focused and lock into what you’re supposed
to be doing. If you don’t know what that is, then you
better figure it out ASAP (As Soon As Possible)
15. Making all your wants, needs
Expensive women and cheap thrills coupled with the
expensive sneakers should not be on the list of your
needs. Setting the foundation for your business and
team is far more important than updating your
wardrobe and chasing sex.
Distinguish between what you want and what you
actually need. Make sure your priorities are in tact or you will lose your track.
14. Forgetting that family comes first
Those who supported you before anything deserve to
be taken care of when you reach your success. If you aren’t doing this for the ones you love, then you’re not doing it right. Family comes first, no matter what happens. If you work for whom you love instead of just yourself, you will get far.
13. Blaming anyone else but yourself for anything inl ife.
Hold yourself accountable for everything. At the end
of the day, all you have in the world is yourself — so
go hard. Don’t look to anyone for answers and
instead of making problems, create solutions.
Whether it was that job you wanted, the funding you needed or the love you think you can’t live without, there is no one that can be held accountable in this universe except for you.
12. Getting comfortable like you actually deserve
down time Unless you’re chilling with Victoria’s Secret models in
Monaco this weekend, you shouldn’t even be
thinking about taking a break anytime soon. You
need a vacation?
What have you accomplished? Mark Cuban spent
seven years building out his first business before he
even took a break. Don’t get lazy now.
11. Sticking with jobs that didn’t teach you anything.
A bad job is like an unhealthy relationship. Truthfully,
the only reason you’re there is because it is the
safest and easiest thing you know.
Any job or relationship that allows for you to get
comfortable should be avoided at all costs. The last
scenario you could ever want is becoming like the
rest of those miserable 40-somethings faced with
weekends of minivans and soccer practice.
10. Following the crowd instead of forging against it
You can be aware of the trends, but never follow
them. If all your time is spent trying to adjust to your surroundings, you’ll get lost in the crowd all the more easily.
Success and greatness are constructed by
trendsetters themselves, not those who latched on to what’s currently trending.
We hope that you don’t have any aspirations to look like your favorite rapper.
Temptation to be influenced by those who you aspire to be like is easy, but no one finds his or her calling while following in the footsteps of another.
9. Failing to energize those around you
Although you may sometimes think there is a lack of talent in your networks — this is never the case. It is your sole responsibility to inspire, encourage and drive those around you to succeed.
Failing to do so only confirms that you fall victim to
that which you accuse others of. Change and
greatness can be sparked everywhere, but bring it
upon yourself to trigger it.
8. Thinking you need to stop learning and growing
You have more zeros at the end of your bank
statement. Don’t consider this your victory lap,
but rather as a taste of greatness. Do you live to
enjoy the moments you dreamed of or a lifetime of
unimaginable success?
The common misconception that once things are in
your favor, you no longer have to put in the 3:00AM
work hours is a dangerous problem. The fewer nights
that you’re willing to put in the work, the fewer
opportunities you will have to celebrate your
achievements in the future.
7. Thinking that anyone will ever pay you back
Your 20s will be accompanied with a slew of poor
investments by both you and those around you.
Whether rich or poor, there will always be someone in your circle that will need a helping hand. If you ever think you’re going to see that money again, you’re sorely mistaken.
If there were a plan of action and re-investment, then the truth is that you will not see #1 back. Times are tough, especially in your 20s and finding a route back to financial freedom is often seen only when winning the lotto or signing your first deal with Ca$h Money Records.
Of course miracles do happen, but the probabilities
that you’ve essentially given the money away are far too high.
6. Investing in relationships with the wrong values
Your love life is an investment — and the smarter the deals you execute, the savvier of an investor you become. Instead of navigating through an ambiguous investment in which you shower your lover with cash and prizes for existing, make sure he or she will demonstrate positive returns. Your love life should have a solid ROI (Return On Investment)
5. Holding on to friends that waste your time and add
no value to your life
You’ll be sucked down into the abyss right with them
if you don’t cut the fat of the group. Family and
friends could have been great to you as a child, but if they no longer hold the value and inspiration that is needed for you to thrive in life, then cut them loose.
The only individuals you should be surrounding
yourself with are those that challenge your ideas and motivate you to find the next solution to your
problems. No, not the pessimistic assh*les who shoot down your ideas with their negativity, but rather the
ones who genuinely want to see you succeed no
matter what you do in life.
4. Forgetting about the piggy bank and spending
every dollar you have.
The truth is it’s about making more money, not
saving it. But at the same time, if you have no means
for expanding your revenue channels, then you must
be able to save a few dollars here and there. No one
likes to have to walk to work because he blew every naira at night club.
3. Not wrapping it before tapping it If you don’t want to have a child then you better limit your excuses. As vulgar as it may sound, sometimes there are only a few options in life, so you must avoid all potential margins of error.
The road to success is not paved with having
responsibilities of children and your future wife to be.
This is a somewhat lonely journey that you must take by yourself and those you love will be able to
celebrate with you after.
2. Dating unstable people with mummy and daddy
issues
We need to control the invincibility we all feel when it comes to both men and women. Whether she’s a
stripper or he’s a frat bro, we feel the need to be the
knight in shining armor for our lovers.
As chivalrous as this may seem, we hate to break it
to you, but you will never be able to change anyone.
By setting yourself up for a losing battle, you’ve only ensured your misery for the next few months. She’s clingy for a reason, don’t be her Dr. Phil. And if he doesn’t have ambition now, he never will.
1. Forgetting that karma is a huge b*tch
Whether it’s burning bridges with people you loved,
stealing your friend’s girlfriend or plotting against an
ex-partner, we must always remember that karma is
the biggest b*tch we’ve ever met.
There is nothing more true than the fact that
whatever goes around comes around, and you are
not immune to the cosmic forces that be. We’re not
asking you to go on your Mother Teresa pilgrimage,
but don’t be surprised when reality catches back up
with you and brings you to your knees. Be a good
person. You’ll get further in life.
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